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Friday, June 19, 2015

So here is a new chapter to my story... and here is how this stupid registry has been effecting my family... My husband slept with a 15 almost 16 yr old 20 yrs ago.  He has served his time, he has gone threw all his therapy and I've even taken the classes to be a sex offender supervisor.  He is off of probation, but has to register until 2025, when our daughter will be 19.  We really don't care about registering its no big deal to fill out the paperwork and have a picture taken every 6 months etc, BUT our daughter is the one getting the flack from it all.  She can't play with kids in the neighborhood because of my husbands past.  She plays with kids for weeks on end and then someone tells the family about his past and she suddenly gets rejected and expelled from that group of kids.  She never knows why, she doesn't understand why people don't want her to be around.  We are afraid to move because we will be published again and then the families at school will know about her dad and she wont have any friends there either.  We switched her from one school to another just to get her out of the school in our town in hopes of her being able to find friends but we fear that the information will be leaked and will hurt her more.  We've gone to school systems and gotten approval for him to be on grounds as long as he follows certain rules and stays with me.. but the thing is that they always say that the school will have to send out a letter to ALL the parents in the school to let them know that a sex offender will be on the grounds, which will again put our daughter in the line of fire.  THIS IS NOT FAIR!!! IT IS NOT MY CHILD'S FAULT MY HUSBAND MADE A MISTAKE 20 YEARS AGO.  This registry and publication only hurts the families...